- 25022019 -
IT'S 2019!
How I wish my dad was still here so that he could listen to me and surely he will 100% supports me and give me advices!
Hi, 2019! 👋🏻
Chinese New Year is over and even February is going to end in a few more days.
Oh yeah! I am officially graduated from my university! 🎓
I am very excited, of course.
However, I wasn't quite happy these few months as I couldn't do what I want to do.
Ever since I finished my final exams last December, my mum has been urging me to get a job.
I have been always wanting to find a job that I love to do, not a job that I just work for money.
But my mum couldn't understand what I want to do? 🤔
I always wanted to work in the Event industry.
YES, I KNOW! Many people told me that I wouldn't have much free time as I am required to work on weekends.
But here's the thing, I got passion in it, so why not just let me try?
What if one day I will be successful in this field?
What I need is encouragement from my family, not discouragement.
But from my mum's perspective, I will not have a bright future in Event industry.
So yea, I had few arguments with my mum and both of us weren't quite happy back then.
Till now, she still insisted me to work for my aunt's friend in his marble factory which I don't really like it at all.
Sometimes I was thinking, WHY DO OTHER PEOPLE'S PARENTS LET THEIR KIDS TO DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO DO AS LONG AS THEY ARE HAPPY, BUT MY MUM DOES NOT THINK THE SAME THING AS THEY DO?
Not that I am jobless or what, but I still have classes to attend as I took an extra course which required me to attend classes every Saturday.
Therefore, I couldn't work with the job that I want to temporarily until I finished my course.
I CAN'T WAIT TO FINISH IT SO THAT I CAN DO WHAT I WANT TO DO!
When people asked me, "HEY! Why are you working in the marble factory? THIS IS SO NOT YOU!"
Here's the reason, for now, I don't have choice to make my own decision as my mum said she will not support me financially anymore after I graduated.
Which is pretty fair I guess?
So I started finding part-time jobs so that at this time being, I can support myself financially.
I have a lot of things I want to do after graduated.
I want to go for working holiday, I want to find a job that I want to do....
BUT ALL THESE JUST NATURALLY GOT REJECTED BY MY MUM.
I MEAN? SERIOUSLY? NOT THAT I DONT WANT TO FIND A JOB? IS JUST THAT I JUST FEEL LIKE DOING SOMETHING THAT I WOULDN'T HAVE THE CHANCE TO DO DURING MY STUDIES.
I DON'T WANT TO HAVE REGRETS IN LIFE!
blogged,
Sharlyn